We all need this gentle reminder sometimes...
Motherhood always comes with moments of self-doubt. Maybe you raised your voice, forgot an important event, or just feel overwhelmed by all the things you think you should be doing. Whatever the reason, those nagging thoughts creep in, whispering that you’re not doing enough. But let me assure you this: you are a good mom, even when you don’t feel like it. Here are 10 reasons why.
1. You Love Your Kids Fiercely
Even on the hardest days, I know that deep down, your love for your children is unwavering. Whether you’re showing it through hugs, discipline, or simply making sure they have clean clothes, your love is the foundation of everything you do.
2. You Worry Because You Care
The very fact that you’re questioning yourself as a mom shows how deeply you care. If you didn’t want the best for your kids, you wouldn’t spend so much time wondering if you’re doing enough.
3. You Show Up Every Day
You wake up each day and show up for your kids, even when you’re exhausted or running on empty. Being present and trying your best, even when it’s messy, speaks volumes about the mom you are.
4. You’re Teaching Them Resilience
Life isn’t perfect, and neither is motherhood. By showing your kids how you handle mistakes and challenges, you’re teaching them resilience, problem-solving, and the importance of not giving up.
5. You Apologize When You’re Wrong
When you apologize for losing your temper or making a mistake, you’re teaching your kids accountability and humility. They’ll remember your example and learn that it’s okay to own up and make things right.
6. You Celebrate Their Wins
Whether it’s clapping for their first steps or cheering at a school event, you’re your child’s biggest fan. Your encouragement helps them build confidence and feel supported, which means the world to them.
7. You’re Doing More Than You Realize
Packing lunches, planning their schedules, making sure they’re bathed, and remembering to buy their favorite snacks — it all adds up. These everyday acts may feel small to you, but they’re huge in your child’s world.
8. You Create a Safe Space
Your kids know they can come to you when they’re scared, sad, or unsure. That sense of safety and security is priceless, and it’s something only you can provide as their mom.
9. You Put Their Needs Before Your Own
Even when you’re stretched thin, you find a way to show up for your kids. Whether it’s skipping a meal to feed them first or staying up late to finish a school project, your selflessness doesn’t go unnoticed.
10. You’re Exactly What Your Kids Need
No one else could be the mom your kids need. They don’t see your mistakes or imperfections the way you do — they just see you. To them, you’re home, comfort, and love.
Give Yourself Grace, Mama
It’s easy to focus on what you think you’re doing wrong, but don’t forget to acknowledge all the things you’re doing right. You’re loving, teaching, supporting, and showing up in ways that matter more than you know. The next time you feel like you’re falling short, come back to this list and remind yourself: you’re a good mom, even when you don’t think you are.
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You're doing an amazing job, mama!
